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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:just over a month ago my husband of almost 12yrs left me we had been together 15yrs.the main problem for me was the fact that my husband had a new friend who would do everything he could to seperate us when we was out on a night our other friends noticed this was happening and one of them even had a word with my husband but he just thought that i was making it up about spending nearly every night sat at the bar whilst my husband was busy talking to his new friend.when we didn't go out his friend would always text and phone my husband wanting him to go out.i got fed up of being ignored and asked if we could spend some time just the two of us together i asked his friend to back off and give us some space but he made it very clear to me that he wanted to split us up so my husband and him could spend all their time together drinking and chatting women up and going to football games together.my husband went to look at getting a new wedding ring as he had lost his old one due to him having to take it off for his job.we was even going to book a holiday it was to be our first holiday in 6yrs.it was just a week before our 12yr anniversary when he came to me and told me it was over that i never gave him any time out with his friends the only reason i went out all the time was because he asked or told me to.i still love him but he went to a solicitor to file for divorce only a week after he told me it was over.i just don't know what to do i still love and care
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (22 July 2012):
 Sounds to me your husband's friend sweentened the pot by introducing him to a new woman to further convince him to be free. Your husband is quite immature if he still lets his friends talk him into foolish things. You deserve better. Move on sweetie and maybe one day his friend will talk him into jumping off a bridge.. My guess is he'll do that tooI
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reader, Abella  +, writes (22 July 2012):
 Very very sadly your husband has found a New Best Friend who is telling your hisband exactly what your husband wants to hear.
The man you love is walking down a different path.
Strenuously assert to your solicitor that you do not want a divorce and that you want marital counselling before any divorce takes place.
But, sadly, it may not be enough.
Your husband is on a slipperly path and may well, on reflection, realise he has made a massive mistake. But at this moment your husband has a stronger more forceful companion who he is apeing.
I think your husband is weak and disrespectful to you.
Think long and hard about whether you can take him back.
Especially in the light of how easily your husband is choosing his new best friend's advice, over his loyal wife.
Regards
Abella
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