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*eavyheart89
writes:My bf and I have been together 2.5 years now. We both in our early to mid 20s. He lives in a houseshare and I live with parents. Around 3 weeks ago my bf was sent to work 100 miles away and the company has put him in a hotel. He works 5 days and returns at the weekend. Everyday we would text or chat on the phone. This week he seem to ignore my texts so after 3 days I called him and he said he hadn't notice my texts there was around 9. He came back at the weekend and seem a bit off and wouldn't hug me. We spent the weekend together and have had sex twice which is higher than normal. On the Saturday night he wouldnt kiss me I thought he was still pissed off as I had a go at him earlier in the day as it took him 3 hours to put his socks and shoes on so we could go out. We went for a meal on Saturday but he seemed distracted. That evening I asked who is he texting and he told me someone at work about a pub quiz that during a weekday morning (seems like a lie). Since then he got angry if I touched his phone to move it or pick it up off the floor when it feel down. Normally he lets me play with it for games and internet. I ask him about the girl he texted and he was very vague about her all I know is she one of 9 people who speaks English at this work site. I got upset later and he did not even ask why as he was too busy texting. I read a text to her it was about the meal I took him too. It said she taken me for a meal ewwww lol and then after he texted stupid auto correct. I'm not sure if he cheating on me with her or just made a good friend but since she came along he seems distant. The only full conversation we had this weekend that he not been distracted by is the talk about the plan of moving in together once he get back from his working away. Is this just a work friend or more?
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reader, heavyheart89 +, writes (23 July 2012):
heavyheart89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean he broke up with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): something is definitely going on between them. or at least he likes her and is distracted.
when you say he left you, do you mean broke up with you? or he left to go back to work.
if i were you, i'd press the issue strongly. something is clearly up. she is no friend.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 Something is definately up and I'd be willing to bet she has something to do with it. I think he's attracted to her and you are less appealing right now
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reader, heavyheart89 +, writes (23 July 2012):
heavyheart89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he left me before I even ask about her
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