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writes:So I just met these two guys who are best friends, and we hit it off really well. All week we've been staying up all night together, texting or skyping, and i'm starting to feel something like a crush. The problem is, it's for both of them! I don't know if it's possible to really like two people at the same time, and the guys have both told me that they like me too... So I don't want this to cause a fight between them either. Should I pick only one of them? Will that hurt the other so much he'll stop talking to me altogether? Will I be causing any problems to their friendship?
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reader, Person23  +, writes (24 July 2012):
I think that it is possible. Right now, I am crushing on lots of girls, I really can't pick one
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): Of course it's possible to really like two people at the same time. It does become quite awkward when they're best friends though. It also means they probably have a lot in common and are quite similar so the same things are probably attracting you to both of them. Your a lucky girl that they both like you too. Personally I think try and keep up a friendship with both for now but nothing serious. In a situation like this I think it would be better for you not to make the first move. If one of them makes a move and asks you out or something then so be it and go for it. If they're best friends they'll probably have told the other before asking you out anyway! If there's tension or confrontation don't get in the way and you'll know that it's really not meant to be. There will be lots of other great guys but friendships should never be broken when possible. Best of luck with it and hope you'll be happy with whoever :)
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reader, Alexandre  +, writes (22 July 2012):
 Well of course one can feel for two at the same time I know I have in the past but what you have is a bit of a problem.
It is normal for anyone to like two people at a time but to get closer than friends with the both of them and they both like you can be a bit difficult to handle.
Listen, if you have to choose try testing them without their knowing like for example you could test their reactions to certain thing's see who they hang out with see witch one of them is the most intelligent the cutest most polite things like that although this is probably what I would do myself
Another way to choose would be to keep going as you are now and wait until you see their true personalities and see if you still like them both.
Happy Choosing :D
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