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writes:Hi everyone,So here's the problem. 2 years ago I've transfered into a new school. And I've fallen in love with this girl whom I just met this girl. Her childish behaviour, heartly smile, and her angelic face and the good thing about her is that she never had a boyfriend and she's very hard to get. Many guys like that kind of girl. She's desired by many boys. The good news is that her friends tell me that she has a crush on me. At first I didn't believe it b'coz I can't see the signs that she has a crush on me. I can only catch her staring at me sometimes. Last year at a friends party me and my friends(including her) played Spin the Bottle and Truth or Dare. At that time, she confessed that she has a crush on me. After I heard that. I questioned her if I could court her (In the Philippines people practices old tradition). After the party I accompanied her home, as were walking I tried to hold her hand. She blushed but she told me that she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. Now were both in highschool and she just met this boy, actually he's a friend of mine, he's the captain of our basketball team and he's taller than me, were very close actually and me.?? I'm smart and plays the guitar and bass. Sometimes I feel insecure in some way. Some say I'm cute (students at our middle school consider me a hearthrob). But I get jealous when they're together but I don't show it. But one of my best friend noticed and she told me that I don't need to be jealous. She still likes me. But somehow I don't believe her.How would I know that if she still likes me?And girls what would you prefer a sporty guy or a musical guy??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): I think I'm gonna write her a song. But what should I do to get her alone with me, so I can sing her the song with no witnesses? I hate being teased by other classmates esp. about these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2012): A musical guy. (They would likely be in touch with emotions and feelings.) Everyone is different though in who they would prefer. A man who is well kempt, intelligent, and who keepstruth finding/keeping a priority in life in general, is usually what I look for in a close companion/boyfriend.Being a musician and intelligent yourself is likely why you are able to question everything so much and why it is starting to bother you. Your being cute/good-looking would make the other guy's athletic side be of no consequence physically... so likely what she is looking for in part might be prestige which is hard to offer as a musician unless you get a chance to give a performance in front of her sometime or invite her to a recital. I bet she would love that and she would never forget that kind of experience for the rest of her life either. She can see the other guy playing so maybe she needs to see what you have to offer in that way too. People do not have their pretty looks forever but music... wow... a woman can take that to bed with her and listen to it whenever she wished to.
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