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writes:Hi everyone.So ive never been in this perdicament before, ive only ever been in one relationship and it was toxic, there was a lot of cheating lying and heartbreak for me. Im still not completely over it but I am trying to move on. I recently met a guy and we text fairly often, he works nights so i usually have to stay up late to talk to him as he sleeps most of the day. We have a lot in common and have long conversations, that are fun and allow us to get to know each other. When we first began, he said things like cutie or how talking about being my secret admirer, and we had plans to go to a carnival but he ended up having to work the night before. He knows im interested, but hasnt asked me out, Im not a huge flirt but i do flirt a bit, is it because i dont call him cute or handsome or anything, he always texts me on his breaks but normally im asleep since his break is at three in the morning, should i be more flirtasious or just find someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2012): Hi its the poster, thanks for your responses, I have thought about the fact that he works at night sleeps all day, but he actually asked me out last night, so fingers crossed. Thanks again :)
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (25 February 2012):
Ask him to ask you out ^^
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (25 February 2012):
 HI
I would just find somebody else, I think because your willing to stay up so late to talk with him it keeps him company, which is nice ( for him) tiring for you. If he sleeps through the day and works through the night, I cant see how anything with him could possibly work. If your happy just to be friends and text and talk with him I would leave it is as that. Find someone who is able to put the time and effort into it.
Mandy x
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reader, FENNECH  +, writes (25 February 2012):
If he is at work all night and asleep all day it would be difficult to have a relationship, but not entirely impossible. Why don`t you drop very strong hints to ask you out? It looks very much like you are both interested.
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