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writes:I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with me to the pool and she said he kept looking at me then when I was dryingbmy hair he came out a staff cupboard shirtless. I thought I like him. But I was way to shy to say anything in person. So I looked him up on Facebook and I asked him out for a drink gave him my number and nothing. It's been a week. I go swimming today and yet again he looks at me while I'm in the pool and when I say hi to him later as he walks past me he goes bright red. My friend said she thinks he's just shy and does like me? What does everyone here think. Should I say something in person. I like him he's nice and I generally want to get to know him better.
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reader, amandang1208  +, writes (26 February 2012):
 Sweetie, it is so obvious. He likes you, he saw the post on facebook, and he is so shy!! Talk to him in person, he wants you to. Some guys just don't have the balls to make the first move; so do it already if you are into him. There is so way he would be blushing walking past you if he wasn't in to you. Good luck!!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (25 February 2012):
 If there hasn't been a reply after the first initial contact, I usually would say "just move on". But it's a possibility that he may be shy- and you would just have to ask him out in person. He probably didn't know how to feel after reading your message, couldn't think of what to say if he called, or he probably didn't see the message. Which is why you should ask him out face-to-face. And if he says no, he has a girlfriend, or otherwise... then just say to yourself... "hey... I've tried", and pat yourself on the back for taking a chance.
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