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writes:Quick background: Both 17, together 2 years. Boyfriends best friend Craig. Other close friend Jake. Me and Craig are close, like siblings.We all play Xbox together and my boyfriend is extremely horrible to me on it but completely different in person. For example, I don't get out to heal the tank on Battlefield he gets mad at me but if it was Craig or Jake it wouldn't be a problem. It's never anything serious though just snapping at me which gets me a little hurt because it's just a game.Anyway recently me and Craig have started to play word of warcraft together and my boyfriend never minds me playing games with Craig before because were like siblings, literally. But my boyfriend got annoyed because Craig didnt come on Xbox anymore but I still come on Xbox and talk to them all yet all they do is rudely demand me to go on Battlefield. I got upset after about a week of this and spoke to my boyfriend over xbox about it. He said that it annoys him that I say i'll come on and I don't but Craig does the same and it doesn't annoy my boyfriend. Now my boyfriend is ignoring me and is going out getting drunk with his friends. He's really annoyed at me and made an invite only party with everyone and then kicked me from it.My head is screaming at me that I shouldnt be treated like this but my heart is saying I know hes not always like this. I do know stopping going on xbox will solve many problems but I enjoy going on it and I dont see why I should be driven off it. Any advice on how to handle this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): You def don't deserve that! If you really like him, which I'm guessing u do cuz u have been with him for two years, try talking to him again. If that doesn't work than try to get Craig or jake to talk to him. If THAT doesn't work I recommend u end this because u deserve better.
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reader, itcantjustbeme  +, writes (28 February 2012):
 Seems your boyfriend has a slight addiction to gaming. I'm not talking about the light addiction which is when someone jokes about how maybe they drink too much caffine or they have an addiction to somethinnng silly. A real addiction conflicts with your relationships and life. If he gets that aggressive with game play he might have some form of an addiction.
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