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writes: I was with my ex for two years, he broke up with me unexpected, we are both hot tempered.he told me he wanted it over as we were living together i said i refuse to hear this threat anymore just do it. he did. moved out. as we work together initially i was finding it very hard but overcame this very quickly, my manager put me on a different service. to start with my ex behaved like he wasnt bothered. a month later at work i was on bar he wasnt working but he turned up, had a drink with the manager he was constantly in my sight to the point i thought i was being paranoid. when i went to the cellar to restock he had gone to change the barrel despite not being on shift. after he was constantly looking at me.i caught him in the corner of my sight.since then he was been what i can only describe as peacocking. i ignore him constantly because he hurt me. but to the point where he got on the stage and started singing where i was working. my next shift, he was really mardy, off told another member of staff off because they threw me out of sequence (i am a waitress/bartender) i went back to the bar he was there he had no reason to be. fag break there was no place for me to sit he gave up his seat for me. end of shift, the staff were on about going for a drink, i got invited by a different male staff member, thought about it then said im guna go home guys see you soon. i walked off i looked back briefly my ex was staring at me body language open as if to say arent you coming? i just dont know what to make of it, he hurt me greatly , not guna say i dont have feelings we were together a long time but i just see it as him messing with me and for what? why is he acting like this?
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reader, need2know4life  +, writes (18 February 2012):
When you are in this stage of your relationship it takes time to tell what will happen. Just go with the flow. Tell him what you like and don't like. If you can not see eye to eye on things just take a break. Sometimes when your are in the heat of the problem you just need space to be away so that you can see clearly.
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