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*harellabella
writes:Hii y'all, so my bf and I decided on him movinv out for a little while, he moved in with his sister and her bf, I went over to their house and couldn't stop crying, I miss him to much, I'm used to living with him and this is a complete change for us, I couldn't manage to tell him why I was crying I felt embarassed for missing him aftet two days not seeing eachother. I don't know how to handle myself whrn I'm around him anymore. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): So sorry you don't see the writing on the wall. Your only chance is to move on quickly. He'll either try to get you back or be relieved you're gone. Sorry.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 February 2012):
 He moved out and you are unhappy... so I guess HE decided and YOU agreed because after all what else could you do? I mean if you said "NO I don't want you to go" he probably would have gone anyway.
you don't move out cause things are going well... there must be problems....
I live with my guy and there are days I miss him after HOURS of not seeing him so it's normal that you missed him after two days.
why did he move out?
what are you two planning to do to work on the problems?
if you have no plans to work on the problems how do you plan to fix this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012): Nothing wrong with crying when you are upset and unless he's a complete idiot he should be able to work out the reason. Just be yourself.
While he's away though, try to find something else in your life, friends, family,things to look forward to, so that your happiness doesn't depend entirely on him.
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