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*eckySmith101
writes:Hey again.Recently, me and my boyfriend have practically done everything mouth-to-mouth wise but he wants more.(and i don't mean sex, i mean touching) I've told him that I'm not ready to do it and he said he's ok with waiting, even though I know he isn't. He is really sweet and won't push me for more unless I show the green light. So don't worry about that. But I want to know that he really is ok with my phobia (i don't know what to call it.) So how can I make him slow down or at least not want more.thanksxx Reply to this Question
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reader, BeckySmith101 +, writes (21 February 2012):
BeckySmith101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry, ignore that last one, i misread it. thank you again!
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reader, BeckySmith101 +, writes (21 February 2012):
BeckySmith101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplease remember i am 14? and yep, still a virgin. Thanks though!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): I'm guessing it's safe to assume you're a virgin. He just needs to realize that it's your body and he can't force you into anything you don't want to without committing rape. The best thing is to just let it happen, spontaneous love making is a wonderful thing, the two people just relaxing into the act where you're the only two people in the world. However, if he implies he wants more, just keep reminding him until you are ready. You're still young, you've got all the time in the world.
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