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writes:I've recently got into casual relationship with an ex-boyfriend of mine. There was no big reason for breaking up, we were in a long distance relationship at the time and barely got to see each other. We live pretty close now, 25 minutes. I was at his place last night, things were going really well and started to become heated. When he had me half undressed he stopped and said we should take things slow. He then proceeded to ask me what I was looking for, I am looking for a relationship but I decided it was probably best to tell him that I was just gonna go with the flow and he agreed and said we should play it by ear. So the fact that he is asking if we can take it slow and just play it by ear I'm just beginning to think he doesn't actually really like me. These are the only real indications but I think the only reason he keeps me around is because I know about his embarrassing fetish and his problem with his manhood which prevents him from having proper sex. He also called me immature? He is very affectionate towards me and we do generally get on really well it's just there's these little things that send me warning signs.Is he only keeping me around because I know his secret?
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (19 February 2012):
Sounds like he is keeping you around for sex with no commitment. He basically asked and made sure you wouldn't think it's would be a relationship.
So the question is: what do you want? If you want a relationship then tell him and be prepared for him to say no. Then move on and find someone who does want monogamy with YOU.
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