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30-35,
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writes:So I've only known my boyfriend for about 3 months and we started dating about a month and a half ago and him and i are 5 years apart. He doesnt seem interested in me as much as he was when we were just friends, at the beginning of the relationship he said he wanted to take it slow and i agreed but we jumped into the relationship really fast but now we barely ever hangout but when we do hangout he's so sweet and nice to me, he doesnt like texting that much, and when i call him he seems really annoyed with me. I tried not texting him for the past 2 days hoping he would call/text me but he hasnt. Does he still want to be with me? I really like him and dont want to seem clingy and i definately do not want to lose him. What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012): I think he was interested in you for sex only. He got what he wanted so you are no longer a priority for him and he has outgrown the young girl and probably chasing after the more avaiable women of his age group.
Serial Cheats and Sex Only Idiots are creeps that way- selfish to the core.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 February 2012):
 you are 5 years apart... that means he is either 11 or 12 or he is 21 or 22
either way he's too far from your current age... age gaps are FINE later in life as a teen I strongly don't recommend more than 2 year difference.
I"m betting he's older... and I"m betting that once he got some sexual activity he lost interest.
at 16/17 you are still in school with homework and chores and living at home with parents... you are a teen... a high schooler... it's very different than being an adult in the working world.... or living at college or on your own...
I think he's done.... if he's not contacting you regularly and you feel him slipping away then that's what's happening... and it will probably be gradual as he sees nothing wrong with you, it's just that you are at different stages in life and have very little in common now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012): Better to leave off texting him as you seem maybe a bit too keen and it's better that things are the other way round, specially as he said he wanted to take things slowly.
If he's interested he'll come after you and if he's not then let him go and move on to the next one.
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