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He acted interested but now he's not. Should I ask him to hang out tonight?

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Question - (18 February 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please read i need help!

Sorry its a little long but i need to tell the whole story. So i met this guy while out with my friends.

Hes someone i went to school with but never talked to until now. He said he wanted.to take me out but we didnt exchange numbers. The next week we meet up again and we ended up making out. He texted me the next day and wanted to chill it didnt really work out and we both ended.up going home.

He texted me late that night and asked if he could take me to the movies but i never reaponded to it cuz i really dont know why.

The next night, a sunday, he texted me and asked what i was doing the next night i didnt answer him back until the next day and said i wasnt doing anything and he said he would call me when he got off work.

Well he never did so the following friday i texted him and asked if he was ever planning on calling me he said he was but he works a lot.

Later that night he wanted to chill so i texted him to hang out and he didnt answer me. The next friday we ran into each other again and i was like u kinda ignored me he said no i didnt i work a lot.

Well we ended up having a steamy make out session then he came over and we did everything but have sex. I told him we should.hang out and he said just text me and we'll chill.

Well the next day i texted him and asked if he made it home.alright and he never answered me. So on monday i texted him and was like u did make it home right?

He said yeah and we talked for a minute now i havnt heard from him since.

I dont understand. Why has he not hit me up? Is it cause i kinda blew him off? I was thinking that maby i should text him tonight and acctually ask him to hang out because maybe he is waiting for me to ask him.

But i dont want to be annoying. Did i mess up by messing around with him? Should i text him today and see if he wants to chill. He seemed into me i dont get it. Blahhhhhh

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (19 February 2012):

TrancedRhythmEar agony auntCall him and ask him what his intentions are with you. Since he fooled around with you already, its possible he got what he wanted and will ignore you from here on out. If he doesnt respond, he more than likely used you. If he continues contact, he is probably interested in you but to what extent I dont know.

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