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My college lover: Should I continue with him or cut all ties?

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Question - (18 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am in college; A guy and I has been on and off friends for about 2 years, during that time we have had intercourse and also tried become more than friend. During one of our periods of being apart he got into a relationship, but his girlfriend doesn't know about me. We are currently good friends and have had intercourse recently and talk to each other everyday. should i continue to be his friend or cut all ties.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe's cheating on his gf. the person he's supposed to love and adore and be totally honest with.

if he can cheat and lie to her then he can do ii to you

he's not trustworthy

cut all contact.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (18 February 2012):

Honeypie agony auntGood friends don't have sex.

He will not be anything then a guy who has sex with you and who knows else, including his GF.

Do you really think it's OK to have sex with a guy who is seeing someone else? Would you be OK with having a BF who screws around?

Use your common sense for a few minutes and think on it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012):

He has a girlfriend... that should be an automatic stop sign for you.

The guy is willing to cheat. Is that REALLY the type of guy you want in your life? All it's gonna do is blow up and you will have no one to blame but yourself because you should have seen it coming.

Lose the idiot and find someone who doesn't think with his dick.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, need2know4life United States +, writes (18 February 2012):

Have fun and see where it goes. Try not to think about it that much. You are young you have time to be serious. Talk to him openly and always tell the true. If he can be honest them you both will find happiness. Relationship can be hard when two people have different opinion and different needs that are not being communicated openly and honestly. Take your time and talk to him. Make him aware on your needs and them make a choice together about where your relationship is going to go.

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A male reader, Ayan Ganguly India +, writes (18 February 2012):

Ayan Ganguly agony auntThere cannot be any answer to your question unless you disclose the amount of respect you have for yourself...

Don't make yourself a punching bag..have some dignity for yourself and show some respect to yourself...The choice is all yours but take these points into consideration before taking your decision...don't repent your actions...all the best

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