Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing

A male age 41-50, *r.goodguy writes:

Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and loved every minute of it ,they were 5 and 2 when I met her we have one daughter together ,when I met my wife I knew she dated a couple bad guys but nothing I saw but just maybe low self esteem but I cared nothing alaming,we started dateng it was great she was fun,beautiful ,and so loving to me I was so happy she gave me attention like no other women did I loved it ,we were so into eachother that we slept togather the second time we hungout but i will say this was way out of character for me but before that we spent days talking on the phone just learning about eachother so when we got togather it was special cI've been with 9 and 3 one night stands when i was a teen like 16 after that I never had one I'm kinda a old fashioned love guy I guess ,its funny because I'm not being cocky but I'm a damn goodlooking guy and used to model I'm 6,3 in good shape ,good lover good size but junst always believed in being kinky with one girl and be faithful ,so. After we slept togather opened up and wanted to know if i was a cheater or if I was a player because she had been cheated on multiple times and and I told her no and that i was not the player type and I've been with 8 +her ,then she was all happy ,but then I asked the same she told me 10/11 and only a couple o.n.s. and not bisexual stuff no crazy stuff and I askedabout race ,3ways orgies she only admits to one 3way that night and I was like ok she sounds like me a girl that was a little wild as a teen but was smart as an adult .....so we started dateing and the sex was amazing she did everything and help i would wake up to her giving head :) she was so happy to have a guy like me ,she got pregnet then I a fewcmonths later I asked her to marry me then after marriage she changed ,sex gone head gone like every 3months gone....from twice daily to that?she was moody not sweet and when I went threw health issues she would say I'm not your nurse ? This went on for years me if i broght sex up she would make excuses then say go find someone else ??I'm like wtf ?so finally this summer iim at my breaking point and i find out she ran into an ex and I was with her at my old job a restaurant and she never told me ?and we went in there twice she never said a thing?then she ran into him twice talked but neve told me ?but in the past she alaways would ,then I find out hes black I'm not racest but again another lie and this guy is a guy she worked with and screwed for a year and he had a girlfriend and sthey all hung out ...shady shit ...then in the next days after confronting her all the lies just pored out ....she admitted to sleeping with at least 25 + guys a girl ,a,three some even two guys in one night ?!!! She had 18one night stands ?wow and admitted to sleeping with a drugdeaer and gangmembers meth adicts and the worst was she had two little kids ? And admitted to even sleeping with a guy after his friend had A LOT of drugs in the house ?and she hervfather was there visiting ?...now I know people will say the past is the past but I'm sorry I'm so hurt ....and knowing she would give these disgusting men what they wanted but her hansom faithful husband ??? Please the images are horrible

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