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writes:A little help please :)I'm in love with the man I'm "dating"We were friends first for a while and started things up romantically a few weeks ago. Then I slept with him last week bi thought timing was ok because of how long ive known himThe night was really beautiful and I don't/won't regret it but the next morning he did seem distant and I didn't even hear from him. Finally I texted and he wrote back very flirty and friendly. I asked him over for dinner and he said yes very quickly but wrote back the next day saying be was soooo busy with school and needed to focus and to reschedule OkSaturday I was out with friends and he texted me very late ( I think to make sure I was home alone) and he said he missed me do much and was super sweet. But it's been two days again. No word. He's not making plans. Should I be worried?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 April 2012):
 Doesn't sound good to me.... I'm sorry to say...
you need to figure out with him what he's saying with his "come closer... no go away" actions...
he sounds conflicted... he may like you but not LIKE you... if you know what i mean...
you have two choices:
1. assume you were used and he's only going to contact you for sex and go on your merry way
2. tell him how you feel and that you need to know where you two stand... (risking upsetting the apple cart)
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (3 April 2012):
 If you don't want to be messed about by him then you need to get things straight.
You need to talk to him and find out what it he really wants, is it a relationshipe, just casual dating or is itjust FWB, because right now he isnt making it clear.
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