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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've known this girl for about 6 years. She's 25, I'm 23. In the past we've exchanged movies, chat about our lives, etc. but only once in a while. Just the other day, I asked her if she was going to a nearby college town to watch a game. At first she said that she was busy and wouldn't be able to. The next day, she texted me saying that she was. I told her that I was going to be in town as well but not where she was going but that I would meet her after the game was over and she said 'Perfect!'. She usually has !! at the end of all her texts as if she is excited. However, I'm not sure if she does that to anyone else..The next day, game day, I texted her where she was (since I didn't know exactly at the time) and she told me and asked me to come during but I couldn't convince my buds to go. Game finishes and I head over to the area she is in. I text her and I ask where she is and she says 'waiting by the front door', 'still by the door', etc. while I'm still trying to get there (30,000 people on one street). I arrive and I'm greeted by her cheerful personality. We hug, and I introduce her to my friends, talk/joke for a few minutes and then she has to leave. Before she leaves, she plants a kiss on my cheek which totally caught me off guard. I was a little inebriated at the time so I didn't think anything of it. Now here's the catch. Her uncle dates my mother. So, I'm not sure if she's just being a (overly) friendly family member or if she is genuinely interested. About that cheek kiss, never in my 6 years of knowing her has she given me a kiss a the cheek nor anyone else in my family during family get-togethers. I want to make a move but I'm afraid things will get really awkward if it turns out I was way off base so that's why I'm asking y'all. Any help is appreciated and I apologize for this being so long haha.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 April 2012):
 I absolutely agree with Auntie So_Very_Confused, you are over thinking it.
Since she had no problem meeting up with you at the game, why not ask her out for coffee or something casual.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 April 2012):
 You are overthinking this.
the worst thing that could happens is she says no.
don't treat her like a special thing...
ask her to go for coffee or dinner or stuff
just start spending time with her and see what happens.
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