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writes:What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Young guys that is, in their late teens, early twenties. Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (4 November 2011):
 I'm going to replace the word "girlfriend" in your question with "keeper," as in a girl worth keeping.
And that's pretty simple. Three things:
1) Look your best. Stay thin, grow your hair long, pay attention to your clothes and makeup. You don't have to be the hottest thing on the planet, just your personal best.
2) Be loyal. If a guy suspects you would leave as soon as things got difficult, or as soon as a more attractive guy showed interest, he will not offer you his loyalty, either. Demonstrate loyalty in the little things (show up on time for dates, show concern for his life and his problems, always keep your word without evading the truth), and he'll extrapolate to the big things.
3) Enjoy making him happy. This is one that girls tend to have a hard time with, at least in my experience. Does it make you happy to make him happy? Then you're doing better than 90% of the other girls out there.
Target selection is crucial. These things won't work if the guy is a player, so you have to pick a decent guy in the first place. Once you do that, use these strategies, and you'll be set.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011): Being physically attractive is high on most guys list - although what's 'physically attractive' is subjective. For me, I could care less what color a girls hair or eyes are...although I'm a sucker for a killer set of legs.
Personality-wise, someone who is balanced and stable (which is very rare to find nowadays). Someone who wants to be in a relationship, but isn't attached to my hip; someone who is playful, but is not stupid; intelligent, but not arrogant; romantic, but not sappy; sexual, but not slutty....pretty much the middle ground for me.
Again its all up to what each person is into - just worry about being you and improving your self in areas you want to improve, not for another persons' attention.
Cheers,
P.S. I'm 22
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (3 November 2011):
 Your question is way too general, and so is your answer. It depends on the individual guy himself, on his maturity level, and if he is even looking for a girlfriend.
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