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How can I make him forget about her and fall in love with me?

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Question - (19 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2011)
A female Seychelles age 30-35, *ika111 writes:

i met this guy a few weeks ago he told me he likes me but there is something wrong. he has broken up with this girl, its been like one year and they where together for 6 year. He hasn't forgotten her. How can i make him forget about her and fall in love with me?

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A female reader, uroboros United Kingdom +, writes (20 November 2011):

sorry, but you can't make someone forget about a person they were with for 6 years! that's a long time and it's simply not that easy. if you make someone fall in love with you that's just not love.

do you really want to be a rebound?

i think you should give him some time, because letting our loved ones go takes time.i can't promise he will fall in love with you as deep as he did with his previous partner, but he will sure appreciate your respect for his feelings.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntBonnie Raitt said it best: "I can't make you love me if you won't"

IF he is not over his ex you really don't want him... you are just filler and rebound..... just be his friend

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (19 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntI'm sorry to say this but you cannot make someone fall in love with you, and you cannot make him get over her either, it is up to him to get over her, and it is obvious he has not let go yet and he needs some time. Sorry to say this but you just need to accept this.

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