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writes:My boyfriend are on again off again in a 2 year relationships. we have both screwed up hooked up with each others fiends and worked passed it. recently we broke up and i just got told my cousin is pregnant and there is a 50/50 chance my boyfriend is the dad i dont know what to do im hurt and upset and dont know if i can get passed this
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 November 2011):
 What are you most upset over?
That he slept with your cousin or that he might have fathered a child?
Since you were both screwing around I don't really see why you feel like HE is the only one at fault.
Personally, I think the relationship is doomed - you guys are on and off, which means you keep building up the pile of drama. If you can't work it out together, it's never an answer to go sleep with other people.
I don't understand this whole "be on break" thing personally. Unless you need time away from each other to figure out what's next, however, if you do that... there should be NO hanky panky with anyone else, til you have decided to give it another go or not.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Wait until he can submit to DNA testing before deciding.
What bothers you most that he slept with your cousin? Because you did cheat too. Or that he may have a child on the way?
If the baby is his, I would break up with him due to the potential drama that will follow. Will he be with her? Are they going to remain civil and work something out? How much will this actually affect your relationship (negatively speaking)? Plus, his baby's mother is someone that is in your family. That's too stressful for you to handle.
Now if the baby isn't his, then there's no worries.
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