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writes:quick question if you love some one than can you have bad feelings of sadness ?like as you feel not cared for or loved??????i am pregnant and my husban thinks its just my mood swings but i feel so unhappy and want to leave all the time but at the same time i feel deeply in love with him i haved talked to him but i feel as it doesnt work and i want out and i cant stand him no more but i really love him is this me or my mood swings im angry and sad alot at him at the same time but no one eles and i cant take it anymore please help!!!!!!!!! Is it just me being pregnant or is this how i really feel????????? i cant tell the differnce Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): This is my 2nd pregnancy & I have felt sad & angry & emotional, but I have really never thought about actually leaving. I think it very easily could judt be pregnancy hormones. If it would help, go see a counselor.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 September 2007):
 There are mood swings that happen when you're pregnant, and it's very difficult to sort out your feelings. You hormones are doing jumping jacks right now.
I can't say if your feeling for him are accurate or mood swings. Sometimes the mood swings can cause irritations you have in someone, such as their habits or behaviors which can be accelerated to a new high level.
What doesn't make sense is you say how much you love your husband. Loving someone as you say usually includes missing them when their gone, looking forward to those moments spent together, not the feelings you have.
These is such a statement as to love someone as a friend. You appreciate the time to hang together, and how they are there for you, but you just couldn't see yourself taking your friendship past that.
I'd talk to him, let him know your concerns. If he doesn't communicate back, let him know to listen and not answer then. Just in case it's only mood swings, I wouldn't do anything to chance loosing him, then finding out it was a mistake.
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