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anonymous
writes:I have recently discovered that my partner has been paying for sex. I've been away a couple of times this year with our 6 month old and each time I've been away he has contacted an escort agency. Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort again. What do I do? I love him with all my heart but I feel so hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): I can simply say you deserve more respect than the man you love is giving you. You have giving him the blessing of a child and he is still thinking with his penis. Yes it is in the nature of us all to desire sex but not at the expence of the mother of your child. At present he taking energy from you which you need for loving and caring for your child. I hope that you can find support from friends and family to get away from him, as you are amazing and loving to even still be with him right now...i wish you all the strenth in the world.
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reader, shynelly  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 RUN!!! I mean seriously thats the scariest thing in the world. You have a six month old! I'd have him tested asap for some type of disease. Forget the emotional part of it he's risking your life with this stupidness if it is true that he's going to escorts.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Has he told you he has been having sex with an escort? Keep in mind that you have a 6 month old baby. If you are financially and emotionally strong however that should not influence your decision. I would probably have some revenge sex if it were me. If you can accept his behavior and forgive him, then stick with it and try to give him what he's not getting at home.
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reader, Hk45cal +, writes (15 September 2007):
Sometimes "Love" is just not enough. Its very sad that people involved in relationships do these things to themselves. The end result is always the same. If you stay, you stay and eventually it will happen again and then you are just hurting even more. Even though you love him, you have to love yourself just as much. Staying with this type of person is not good for your mental or physical well being(STD's)Its simple: Run Like HELL!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 You asked what you should you...I would suggest a frank discussion about what he is getting from escorts that he is not getting at home. Do you refuse to have certain types of sex that he can only get from the escorts? If so, can you handle giving him what he needs to encourage him not to stray? Have the two of you discussed a non-monogaous relationship to see what boundaries you would both feel comfortable with? Obviously, monogamy is just not for him.That is what I suggest, in addition for you to get checked for STDs.-Frank B Kermit
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