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writes:The lad I really love and have done things with in the past and have been out with before but he says he doesn't fancy me anymore. He has been off with me today, we were out with a lad who fancies me and I want the lad I love 2 want me back and this other lad was like flirting and holding my hand and stuff and the lad I love didn't act like he cared or anything(which he probably didn't)you could see I didn't wanna be like that with the other lad but I did and I can't be arsed with this other lad, I don't like him really not as much as the one who I love. He was being horrible to me after telling me to go when the lad who fancies me and his friend went home so I had to wait outside for ages on my own until I got picked up. Don't think he is jealous either. If he is then it isn't a good plan because we would end up falling out. He has a girlfriend but we're a lot closer than they are. We have everything in common same sense of humour and we think the same sometimes. This other girl he avoids and makes excuses up when she asks him to go out with her places. I need help what should I do? I really love him, (I'm a teenager)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis it for "youcant loose what you never had!".. but if he does like me and im being like this with other lads we might fall out and i dont want that because were close mates
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): hey girly ive been in your situation...boys do get jealous but tend not to want to show it...what i suggest is be honest and let him know...because he might think your totally over him..~exotic
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reader, youcant loose what you never had! +, writes (15 September 2007):
maybe after hearing he has a girlfriend wheather he likes her or not tells me you should move on.ok i understand you love him but they say if you truly love somebody and they dont love you,you should let them go.maybe you need to find the curage to let him go and move on.you say it proberly isnt jelousy i was going to suggest that however the best thing you could do in your situation is let him get on with his girlfriend you go out meet new people and show him what hes missing not only will you feel better and maybe find someone better if he was jelous or not bothered as soon as he sees you with someone and enjoying yourself (dont go with just anybody to get to him thow)and he does still want you hell be begging you to take him back.then thats up to you but concentrate on your self and do whats best for you because maybe he thinks you need him.prove him wronghope i helped good luck x x x
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