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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boy friend is 13 Years older than me, he has 2 kids from his wife that he is getting a divorce with that he was with for 16 years, I love him to bits but, I always seem to feel threatened by her even though he left her after she cheated 3 times. Lately we have been arguing a lot over her and little things we have been together a year, he has now finished with me telling me he has had enough and that he cant deal with it and it wasnt meant to be! thing is heard it before but this time he is just ignoring my calls, texts everything Im hurting bad dont want too move on last week he was telling me I was the best thing in his life and that he couldnt do any better?What do I do?
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (14 September 2007):
 this isn't what you'll want to hear but to be honest his wife will always be in his life because of his children. if she is the main cause of all your problems, she won't disappear. your boyfriend may have got with you to try and hurt back, he obviously holds a torch for her if he won't hear any bad things said against her. if he is ignoring you, you should appreciate he may need to time to think, and resolve this matter, its all too easy for me to say give up and move on because love is too strong to do that, just take a look at your future and establish if you could find a mutual understanding regarding his ex. best of luck.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 September 2007):
What are the little things you argue with him about? Why would you carry on an argument over little things. He may have decided that he wants a more sumbissive girl. Possibly to avoid his bad past experience.
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