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writes:My sister has been with her partner for just going on 5 years and the past 2 nights I've had a dream that we (myself and her boyfriend) have been left together and he has came onto me and we go all the way. I've never found him attractive before as I see him as my sister's boyfriend obviously but since the dreams I find him really sexy. He is 19 and I am 22. Does anyone know why I'm feeling this.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (15 September 2007):
I think you admire your sisters closeness with her boyfriend. And maybe you want that with someone. I dont fancy him i think you fancy the idea of being with someone that is that close to you.
If your feelings get stronger for him, pick up on stuff that will put you off
good luck
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 I'm not a psychologist, so I can't give you any medical diagnosis of why you are feeling the way you are feeling. From an intuitive perspective I would say that you fancy him. At this point it's a dream you need to keep to yourself, tell no-one. I have 2 sisters that are estranged because of a similar situation. If you don't act out on the impulse everything will be fine. Until the dream subside, I suggest that you enjoy it. If your sister breaks up with him, then you might want to come back here and ask if it's o.k. for you to date him...
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reader, youcant loose what you never had! +, writes (15 September 2007):
well who doesnt find a younger man attractive.but seriously if your single maybe your just longing for someone yourself and as hes your sisters boyfriend and you must see him alot then you could just be thinking of him because you see him alot he sticks in your mind.if your not single maybe your own relationship is not going how you planned thinking of him could be a way of thinking how good you could have it with someone else and there for you should talk to your partner.itherway single or not maybe you look up to your sister and see how good there relationship is you are dreaming of him because you wish you had a relationship like that.and it goes with out saying if your deaming about him pleasuring you your bound to find him more attractive that he is or that you have ever seen him befor.it could just be a stage your going threw and it may well stop go out enjoy yourself and think of someone else you like to dream about.afterall your sister has been going out with him for 5 years if you wanted him or found him attractive then you would have already befor now.hope it helps x x x good luck and the next time you dream about him coming on to you deam that you slap him across the face then you wont find him attractive when you wake up! x x x
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