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writes:hi,im 16 and in trouble. I think i havea crush on my boyfriend's cousin. His cousin, i dont know why i do have a crush on him. He too has a girlfriend but everytime we se each other at a game or at his grandma's house we always stare a each other... directly at the eyes. but when turns around i glance a little bit, when i turn around he glance back. i, personally, KNOW he likes me because i could tell. We play around a little bit but not talk face to face, only on myspace a little bit during the summer.I love my boyfriend a lot but he and his cousin is sooo different. my boyfriend is nice,sweet, and caring.(i do the same) his cousin is a thugish "gangsta" guy which i like. now i havent done anything with his cousin. but i hate it! why cant i stop crushing on him? it's killin me when i see him and all i do is... oh my god. please help!
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 September 2007):
 You love your boyfriend, but have a crush on his cousin. Would you be willing to risk what you and your boyfriend have for a crush that isn't even love. That's like exchanging a house for a card board box.
It's OK to look. It's OK to like, and wonder from time to time, but if that's not what you're looking for, it's not OK to loose someone you are for someone your not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): i had a crush on my boyfriends brother which i saw nearly every day, what i would do is stop messing around on myspace keep it formail and then when ever you are going round his nans come up with some thing else to do like the cinema or bowling.
good luck1
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 September 2007):
You probably haven't matured enough to know the difference between love and lust.
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