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*hortie0431
writes:I cant really control myself while having sex. I dont last long while having sex and i feel embarrased and ashamed because i cant really please a girl that well. Any advice on what i can do to help build my tolerance so i dont go so quickly? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): dont worry about how long you can last. as long as your able to start again. yea live in the moment and breathe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): its time to stop having sex as your doing it for the wrong reasons.how many girls have you dissapointed.the answer should be "not many" if there are many girls you are having sex with.then that is not ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): dude just pleasure yourself before you go out with her
that way you will last like 3 times longer in bed and she'll be all over you
luck man
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reader, Kohjakza  +, writes (15 September 2007):
don't knock it. cum quickly the first time, then you will last ALL NIGHT LONG friend. Be honest though if you must, tell the first times gonna be a quicky cause she is so hot and fine, then move along, many many times!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): I don't agree with "don't play nice". I can only get off during penetration. My husband usually tries to think of baseball, chores that need to be done, etc. until I get off. I know sometimes it isn't as romantic for you, but it will be well worth it if she is sexually satisfied. Good Luck!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 September 2007):
After the first time wait a little while and then start again. I find that by the third or fourth thim you will be lasting much longer.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 September 2007):
 First spend more time in 4 play. If you can't get her an orgasm during sex, might as well before the actual act.
I have a disability called ADHD. Coming along with that disability is an area called "hyperfocus" So during sex, I sort of, not meaning to do it, focus on the end, instead of trying to last a bit longer. What helps is getting real creative in 4 play, and after sex, taking a break for a couple of hours then going at it again. That way you're partner is satisfied with 4 play the first time and with sex the second.
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reader, dont_play_nice_  +, writes (14 September 2007):
Hey - believe it or not, most girls don't orgasm through penatrative sex - try to spend lots of time on foreplay (oral, mutual masturbation, kissing etc) and have open communication - ask her what she likes, tell her to tell you what she doesn't like and you do the same. When it comes to full intercourse, start off slowly, and as you feel yourself about to ejeculate, pull out and wait a while until you're calmed down and start again. I hope this helps and good luck buddy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): my boyfriend has this problem but one solution could be to pull out before u reach climax stage and pleasure her for a little bit before going back to sex.Possibly trying the condoms which slightly decrease sensitivity,or even counting down!If during sex u think of a pretty big number, and count down from that number it is slightly distracting from cuming :) hope it helps!!
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