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Does this mean she wants to break up?

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Question - (14 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my girlfriend and I had a serious fight about me not showing enough love to her, I already admit to it and told her that I was gonna change, but she doesn't believe me, and all she says is that she doesn't know what to do anymore wit us, does that mean she wants to break up???

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A female reader, pwincess United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2007):

pwincess agony auntHi!

She oveously likes you other wise she wouldnt bother telling you how she feels! If she loves you enough she will want to try to work things out between you and all you need to do is try really hard to make her happy. If she's happy then of course its going to effect your relationship for the better. Just ask her if you can give your relationship another try and start afresh!

good luck!

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A female reader, Just a Girl... United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2007):

Just a Girl... agony aunthun this is a very delicate situation because it sounds like shes on the verge of breaking up. the best advice i can give is never leave a woman to think on her own too long because most women, once there minds are made up , there is no going back. she needs reassurance that you will show her the love she needs. affection is the biggest show of this. xxx good luck huni

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A female reader, beautifultrustnlover United States +, writes (14 September 2007):

beautifultrustnlover agony aunti think shes hurting and feel as there is no care and for you to say you will change is a light on the bright side for her but she doesnt want to be let down and she is letting you know that she isnt going to carrie on like this any longer if you dont change she'll leave you as you cant seem to make her happy

good luck but then again i think if you mess up your second chance she will leave you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007):

Yes and no. She is probably fed up so be careful. At least she is being nice enough to tell you how she feels rather than just walking away and leaving you in the dark. So take it as a warning. Do change and try to make her happy.

I mean you have probably let her down before and that is why she doesn't trust you anymore. But since she has not yet broken up with you that means you still have a chance to prove her wrong. To prove that you are great and that she can trust your word. But don't take a second chance for granted. Because if you do, it sounds like she really is going to leave you.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (14 September 2007):

We'll, keep going out with her and consider her arguing as a warning.

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