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anonymous
writes:im trying to cope in silence about my boyfriends secretive life,he thinks i dont know what he`s been up to secret phone calls and txt messages to other women,he`s also got photo`s of them which ive seen,should i walk away without confronting him as he`s very controling and a good liar infact he`s a compulsive liar
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): I meant to say you CAN'T reason with someone who is self serving and abusive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): I would wonder why you think confronting him would do anything except get you into a heated argument...he sounds perfectly awful, and perfectly insane even....
I would run, not walk, and give him no explanation, that will eat at him more anyway, wondering why you could leave wonderful him....Move on, and get to know the next guy a little bit better before getting involved with him to deeply....Take care, and be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): If you are aware he is controlling and with this,abusive as they go hand in hand, a good liar-he won't own up to his mistakes and out right disrespect of you; walking away is the best solution.
You can reason with someone who only cares about themselves. He just won't care and will scream and rant at you.
Walk away, don't look back.
YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE THAN HE IS CAPABLE OF GIVING-you know this.
Have the courage.
*hugs*
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