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writes:I drunk wine and I became drunk at around 12 midnight for about 4 hours and after that at around 5 in the morning I went to bed with a guy having a clear picture of what I was doing. But can it happen that I did not sleep with him or could he have taken advantage while I was asleep? I had lower abdomen pains four days after that. I usually have them if I get aroused. And I have never done intercourse (penetrative sex) before, I only engage in oral sex(touching and rubbing). Wouldn't I feel something the next morning????Obviously I did not go to the doctor, can you please help clarify if it was possible that I never slept with him......
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 it is important to get checked out because yuo could have caught an sti or something. but more seriously, if you didn't consent, it's not taking advantage, it's rape. this man new you were incapable of a clear decision so could have made it for you. go to the doctor and explain your circumstance, he/she will be very understanding and please do not get into a drunken state where you aren't in control of your actions again. let me know the outcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): If you're a virgin & don't use sex toys or masterbate with anything the size of a real penis, I am sure you'd be able to tell if he had sex with you. I'd think your vagina would be sore, or you may have bled a little. But if you do use dildos, etc. I doubt you'd be able to tell. Get to a doctor just to make sure you haven't gotten any diseases & consider taking the morning after pill just incase he did have sex with you while you were asleep/blacked out.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 It is possible. The pains could be cause from you getting trashed. But there could be a chance the other way too. I like having positive answers, but being truthful. I know it's scary to think something like that could happen.
We all have times in our lives where, if we could only rewind the clock. I would go to the doctor, but I'm unsure of the time frame they are able to tell. The best advise I can give you is don't get drunk, and if you do, don't put yourself in a position where something you don't want to have happen does.
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