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writes:Ok im 16 and have this really good friend who i have been really good friends with for about 2 years. She got a boyfriend about a month ago that she really likes, and nothings been the same since. Ive liked her ever since we've been friends and i told her that and she didnt say much. But now she has this boyfriend we never get to see each other as much as we used to, she even sort of ignores me sometimes, which i think has something to do with her new boyfriend. Making the situation of me trying to get her to like me even harder. What can i do to get her to like me, or even be, the really good friends we used to be? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 September 2007):
What's happening is normal. Don't take it personal. She probably still considers you a friend.
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reader, xxmissxx +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Im afraid to say that she seems to really want to move on.Shes happy with her new bf. I know you miss her friendship,but shell come back when shes ready, shes in the honeymoon period, let her enjoy it.Just be there for her when she needs you, and im sure shell be there for you when you need her aswell, just give it time, let her enjoy the early days of her new relationship, and then at least you can say youve been a good friend.Youll meet new friends anyway, maybe even a gf of your own, your still young, theres plenty of time so dont rush and wallow over this.
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