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writes:I have been with a guy for 2 years it's an on and off relationship, he was my first and I am madly in love with him. My parents on the other hand don't know we are together, because we had a bad confrontation 2 years ago but I love him, he treats me great, you can tell he loves me, but he doesn't want me to tell my parents about us. Is that a bad sign? All his coworkers know who I am and even his siblings, but I haven't met his parents yet. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): If its an on/off relationship then it is not serious.
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reader, intimatedude +, writes (5 July 2007):
It sounds as if it is on and off when he wants it to be. You are just waiting for him and he is playing the field. If he does not comment to you, then how can you expect the relationship to be more than casual? Ask yourself, where do I see myself in 5 years? Would he support that? IF not move on.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Why is your relationship "on/off" all the time? Is it not serious? The reason he doesn't want you to tell your parents is because of the bad confrontation 2 years ago, only YOU know what that was about. You need to establish the terms of this relationship. Are you together or are you not? Is he serious in his relationship with you or is he not? Is it a monogomous relationship or are you free to go out and date others? All of this needs to be talked out. Only then, once you know how HE feels can things progress further.
Eve
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