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*aby_caridee
writes:My boyfriend is very skinny. It was natural because it was INBORN. When he was born, he is very vulnerable because he is so skinny. But when he grew up, he had some fats. But not much. Now he wants to Have more body to please me. I feel sorry for him, I don't know what to do. I love him so much. I can't do anything to help. What should I do? Can this be cured? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): Learn a valuable truth: Men don't like to be changed-they want to be accepted. Just love him, don't pity him-that's very wounding to a man period.
He is who he is and will be from this day forward and will change very little. Physical is not paramount in this life. Gaining weight will not erase the scars of his childhood. He will need to find his peace and acceptance of himself first. You will just have to love him as is.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 If you are with him twenty years from now, you will complain about how fat he's become. As the other poster said, love him for who he is.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 If he doesnt want to change you have to live with it or leave him. If he is unheathly skinny talk with him and suggest a dietican
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): love him for who he is..
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