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writes:Hey,This boy who I have known since I can remember has just started talking to me again, but I'm not sure whether I should get too involved with him again or not. The reason I'm not sure is because he was horrible to me when we were a bit younger and he's the reason I got bullied (which I have never got over). But he seems to have matured now, at least I think. Also when we were friends (on and off) it was a great friendship.What should I do forget and forgive or forget about him?
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reader, AbiMF +, writes (5 July 2007):
I'd tread carefully. If he meant a lot to you and you'd like to get that back then by all means try and rebuild the friendship, but be careful. I'd tell another friend what's going on, so you have an emotional support if something goes wrong, and make sure you don't rely on him too much, too soon. Possibly also try and discuss what happened to your friendship the first time round to try and stop it happening again, but remember guys aren't good with emotions! Be careful, and think things through, good luck, Abi xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (5 July 2007):
 We all do some really nasty things when we are young but everyone deserves a second chance to prove themselves and like you have said when you were friends you had a great friendship.
I don't think it would hurt to let him know how much he hurt you though but that are willing to forgive and forget.
Take care.xx.
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