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Can someone have 2 true loves?

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Question - (5 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *heesyblond writes:

Can someone have 2 true loves? i mean i like this guy and im going out with him and i think i may love him but idk and then there is another guy who likes me and i like to and right off the bat we had an amazing conection and idk if i love him or not and someone say something that true love is and all i thought about was both of them fit that discription and idk if u can have 2 true loves or not can you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

well i had the exact same problem i was dating a guy and then i met someone else and we just had one of those unspoken bonds so after about two months of dating them both i broke up with my boyfriend and now me and jake have been together for the last 18 months and its been great. so my advice is to just choose one because by leading them on youre only hurting everyone involved, and you never know if this other guy is going to still be there when you decide guys wont wait forever no matter what they think.

Hope you make the right choice

XOXO Joice

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

i think that you need to choose between them and not lead them on. just look at which one you can be more honest with the one who no matter what you do will always be there for you and always love you.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI don't think you can truely love two people at once. But that is my belief, where as some one else might believe you can love two people.

I believe to truly love someone that means being linked to them with your soul. You adore everything about them, and want to spend the rest of your life with them. I can't see how you can want to spend the rest of your life with two people at the same time.

I believe you can be attracted to two people at the same time.

Think about who you see a future with and who you want to spend that furture with.

xxxxxx

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