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writes:im love with two guys and both are friends they know each other very well.the problem is i dont know which one to choose Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): I concur with Laura and I will repeat what she said. You cannot possibly be 'in love' with two guys, at once. You may be infatuated with them both, but it's not love. A true Love is special and reserved for one person, only. Love is the big prize at the end of the road where two people both work hard through the tough challenges and the joys of cementing a long term, commited, mature relationship. Right now, you are in the beginning phases of possibly attaining 'love' with one of these two people. It's a process and we've all been there. So which one do you choose? You choose the guy that will gift you with his time and attention because building and nurturing a relationship takes time. You choose the guy that you are friends with, the most. The most solid relationships begin between two good friends. Friends have a profound in-depth knowledge of each other. You also choose the one who honors you, respects you, and will be loyal to you..the one who you feel will come to love you, the dearest and the most. Good luck and take care.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (5 July 2007):
You can’t love 2 people at the same time. You can love one person and be in lust with another. Or like one person and be in lust or love with another. But you aren’t at that stage yet. You just fancy both of them, so it isn’t that serious. Do they both fancy you? Maybe you aren’t in a position to chose. If you are, lucky old you. You just have to make a choice. Just stick to it when you do. If you mess about between them, you will end up with neither of them.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I'm afraid you're not in love with any of them. This kind of love is limited to one person only, and your heart always tells you who that person is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): So let one of them choose you.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Too little information to answer this.Is there some difference between them?My advice: choose the one who is closer to your expectations.After you make your choice this situation may become more complicated then it is now, because "they know each other".
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reader, youngcouple22 +, writes (5 July 2007):
do they both know that you fancy each other?your question was very brief but i will do my best to try and answer it.i just answered a question very similar to this, who do you think you have a future with?once you have made your choice you have to stick with it so choose carefully. Do both the guys feel the same for you? you dont want to end up hurting both guys ad more important you dont want to end up hurting yourself sweet.i hope that i was some help. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): i have been in a similar situation myself and the two friends ended up hating each other there is no right or wrong answer to your question the only advice that i would say is follow your heart and make the decsion for yourself don't let others influence your decision otherwise you could make the wrong one
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