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My straight friend who has a girlfriend made out with me; I like him but I don't want to hurt anyone

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Question - (5 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a comfortably gay 24 year old male. Recently I met a 23 year old straight male that I have hung out with a couple times and really have come to like (both as a friend but also am strongly attracted to him). We were out late last weekend and he invited me to sleep at his place. Even though he's straight with a girlfriend of several years, we made out. What the hell should I do here? I'm excited but don't want anyone getting hurt..

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

love-him agony auntBabe i agree with Daniel. I think you should stop seein this guy, if you want no one to get hurt.. I hope i helped . Mail me if you would like to talk x x

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntI think its wrong of him to be honest. He kissed you, and hes supposed to be straight. Although i would steer clear and not act any further on this. Stay friends with him, but try and get over the attraction you have on him. Somebody right will come along and nobody will be hurt. You seem like a really decent & nice guy, so do the right thing. :)

Take care, and good luck.

xxxxxx

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A female reader, RubyBooth United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

you sound like a thoughtful and decent person. Let this guy know that while he has a partner you cant have that kind of a relationship with him.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (6 July 2007):

penta agony auntLet me ask you this: if you had a boyfriend and he made out one night with a straight female, what would you think?

Don't pursue this. People will be hurt, and you'll be the one doing it.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (6 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntIf you don't want to hurt anyone, stop seeing this guy. He's taken; you'll find someone else.

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