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*bt1987
writes:Now My boyfriend is four years older than me im 19 and hes 24. thats not where it ends. we started off as friends then the feelings got mutual. we spent some time apart and now we are together.its been 7 months now and the only thing standing in between us is my cousin. she hates him and thinks he is not to my standards. But i love him and she cant understand that so what do i do?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Hi, Just be open & honest to him. He would definately appreciatte your honesty. Tell him exactly what you feel. The more you communicate with him, the bettere your relationship would be. Speak form the heart.
Good Luck, Mail me if you wana talk.
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reader, rbt1987 +, writes (6 July 2007):
rbt1987 is verified as being by the original poster of the question So tonight i talked to him about it.it doesnt really help because hes in another state right now so he was three hours away and its like 11 over there.Its only for a week.but he kept askin me what did i do and say.and i told him that i care and i dont want to not talk or be with him because of what she said.he wasnt really on the subject cuz 1 he was literally falling asleep on me (not intentionally) and 2 hes a man but i am gonna call him again in the mornig maybe i need a better approach to squash this.especially when talking to him about feelings and stuff.i almost told him i did it because i love him.But he doesnt know that and i dont think hes ready for that but even after telling him why do i feel like i want to cry and i dont even know what im gonna say to him in the morning...
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 It should not stand in your way, talk to your cousin and tell her that you have taken on board everything she has to say but you really like him and are going to keep on seeing him.
Tell her if she loves you she will stand by that decision and be happy for you, and if there any mistakes to be made you are old enough now to deal with them.
Take care.xx.
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reader, sexi +, writes (5 July 2007):
Hi, it is your choice, if he makes you happy dont worry about your cousin.If she is a real cousin then she would accept your decision and the person you are dating beacuse all she would really want is to see you happy.Why doesn't she like him? If she doesn'e have valid reasons for her disliking in him then tell her to keep her opinions to herself
You decide, do you want to be happy with your bf or do you want to make your cousin happy.
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