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I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house

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Question - (5 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house.

I know this is wrong, but I do it to test her reaction. So far, she hasn't said anything to me. My wife told me to stop walking around the house in my boxers, but I still do when the sister is around only.

Besides me, is my SIL normal?...or what will come of this if I continue?

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntFirst of all i'll defend you by saying as men we cannot control our erections as long as your purposly not thinking erotic thoughts about her. Its just life.

Secondly please put on boxers 1st to please your wife and stop any future embarresment, also present company may not like it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

You have some sort of mental problem if you ask me, why on earth can't you keep your pants on around your wife's sister, are you trying to piss her off? I'd say you are on your way to a divorce if you don't cut it out, grow up for goodness sake, really!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (5 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI'm with the ladies. Do you really think anything good can come out of this?

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (5 July 2007):

stina agony auntMaybe your wife has told you to stop walking around in your boxers because your s-i-l has mentioned something to her.

Why are you trying to test her reaction? What do you expect to get? Do you want her to jump your bones right then and there?? Sorry, I just don't get it.

But the part that I do get, and what you need to realize, is that this will hurt the relationship between all of you - it already seems like it's negatively affecting the relationship between you and your wife. Do you value your wife's feelings at all? Because you're sure not acting like it.

Please stop - your experimenting will only result in hurting people and making your wife and sister-in-law feel uncomfortable and awkward.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

At first when we all moved in a house together, it was cool and normal. I use to not think anything of it, but now since i am constantly remined of my shorts exposing my dangling genitals.

I know this is wrong, but at times I have tried to stop, but I enjoy the freedom of my space and thus far, it's been okay.

I just hope this behavior doesn't lead into my SIL getting intimate or fantasy ideas, as I continue to live my state of peace?

Thanks again,

Robert

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