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writes: m upset because i feel my relationship is going downhill, my b/f lied to me about stuff that i found on his computer i asked him if he had it he said 'no' but i saw it with my own eyes how do i tell him i know he is lying i went through his personal belongings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): You need to confront him. If you two are truly close and made for each other then you can talk about anything. But you just cannot go through life with this in your head. Talk it out and see what his reaction is.
Take care
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reader, A Spirit +, writes (12 January 2007):
Trust is most important. There should be nothing to hide. A true relationship puts everything on the table for you to see. I do not think you were wrong for snooping, you know him well enough to know something is up. I fight the same battle with my girlfriend. Look for my new post and give me your thoughts. thanx.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 You diden't say what he was hiding, porn? a letter from another woman?. Whatever it was he was wrong to hide it from you, and on the same note you were wrong to go snooping through.
I would come clean and tell him you found it.
As reader anonoymous says if relationship is strong enough it will survive.
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): well if its gonna eat away at you and your relationship you have to come clean and confront him
you have both done wrong here, if the realtionship is strong it will survive
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