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writes:My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing greateverything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit.last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great.we was laying in bed i told her my dream women was her but more bad girl imagine. she told me her dream guy was me with vin diesel's body.she told me she love's me so i told her i love her 2.she told me she's have so much fun single she doesn't wanna another r-ship.when she went to sleep i felt she was told about saturday night when i was talking 2 her ex. a little 2 easy how did my ex hear her ex in a loud club with all her mate's around her.so i checked her phone (i know very stupid) she been txting this lad called jame's in 1 of is txt's he put " did u have fun at akies house on saturday night? " she txt back " it's not like that where just friend's " just friends? she didn't tell me she went back to her ex akie's that night she told me she went home with her mate sherrithis lad james just got out of a 2 year r-ship and is looking for fun. but my ex txt him saying " i don't want fun no more it's not fun being single i wanna r-ship i'm loney on my own " she's going for a drink with this lad friday night. they been txting each over talking very dirty. my ex telling him she's very tight in the right places and he just wants to f**k her so badly now. she told him if he dated her and they was still together in a month she will sleep with him. but he said he will sleep with her from the start so it's not 2 hard in the end. she agreed she's gonna sleep with him anytime soon. so the agreement me and my ex have about sleeping 2gether is about to end i can feel it.what sould i do?i was gonna ask my brother's 18 year old bird for her 2 set me up with some girl's i've wrote my ex a letter asking her 2 give me a 2nd chance. but if that doesn't work i've got more plan's up my sleeves for james. she txt him the other day 2 say she was bored. she asked him 2 go and pick her up. so they can get 2 know each over. if he had money he would of but lucky for me he didn't.now he's working down south for the next few days till friday but doesn't know what time he's gonna get back so my ex as told me if he get's back early she's going for a drink with him. and if he get's back late i can spend the night at her brother's. i'm so confused because y sleep with me friday and then her ex on saturday i know she's been sleeping with a few lad's because in 1 of her txt's she said 2 james " i don't want anymore 1 night stand's i've had a few i want the real thing " do i class as a 1 night stand? she told me i'm the only 1 fucking her but i know there's others now. but did she make them wear rubbers because she didn't with me i hope 2 god i made her pregnant. i'm getting some new sim cards soon and i'm thinking of sending all these lad's .. james , ryan , akie , scott messages saying " did u sleep with cheryl? if so did u wear rubbers " because i need to know if she did or didn't.she told me she knew james from the past but in 1 of her txt she put let's get 2 know each over. so she couldn't of knew him from the past.on monday night she came up about 10pm she told me she was txting gina because she was crying over her ex but when i checked her phone. she was txting james y lie 2 me?what sould i do?i don't wanna lose her she's the best thing thats happened to me and i don't wanna just let go so quick.i tried asking her about james this morning before she went to work but she kind of blanked me out.she was wearing a pair of my pants and i said i will move them before u take them 2 robs (her brothers) she said keep them hanging around i will need them next time i come up i said something like " your cumming back? " she said " yeah y wouldn't i? "will i still sleep with her if she starts dateing james yes i will. if she wants but when i get my new sim cards i may have 2 send james a txt saying " did u know your new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex " i know my ex will think it's me but if i hide the sim card very well she may think it's someone else. i'm gonna start driveing soon and i said 2 her last night " u call me when your bored and we can go for a drive " she said " yeah i will we can go and do stuff " so y say stuff like this 2 me if she likes james? she said in her txt she likes him and he said he likes her but it's gonna take time because he just come out of a 2 year r-ship like i said before. she told him she will wait because she like's him that much. but will he still like her after he find's out she's been sleeping with her ex i don't think he will.i need something that will turn this lad against her so she come's back 2 me we was perfect together y run 2 another lad who will hurt her in the end?
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reader, iheartmakeup +, writes (12 January 2007):
 The previous reply was from me, I wasn't logged into my account oopps lol!
So yeah you can contact me anytime, you need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): She is your ex for a reason, right? Just don't talk to her anymore, she obviously used you for sex.
You just need to move on now, don't get invovled with her again.
You sound like a really nice guy, You will find the one that will care for you. You just need for time so you can heal yourself. I was like you, I was so in love with a guy who was so out of my reach, but I recently got over him. With time it will heal your problems. Right now try not to think about her, it might even help if you delete her number from your phone.
I hope everything is okay, you will get through it :)
If you need someone to talk to I can help you :)
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 i dont see why you say this is the problem, you made a choice to sleep with her without protection which is really stupid if u ask me (judging from ur detailed post of course) whether or not they are using protection i think its none of your business because if it was u wouldnt agree into doing something so thoughtless. until you decide to grow up and start thinking about your life rationally i think its a chance you have to take, if u get sick why worry if the docs are still around unfortunately hiv wont be that lenient.
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (11 January 2007):
I Waited For The One is verified as being by the original poster of the question i'm 24 james is dunno she didn't sayakie is = 22 maybe 23 .. he's my ex ex he cheated on her whilie they was 2gehter.ryan is = 19 she told me he said some bad things about her and she doesn't talk 2 him anymore. but she txt him saying " how come u don't txt or talk 2 me no more? " he put " i don't wanna screw your head up because i don't wanna r-ship " y say something like that if he didn't fuck her and leave.scott is young. i dunno about scott but in 1 of the txts he put " thanks 4 last night " she put " your welcome " but does he mean thanks for last night because they go out 2gether and Others. or did she sleep with him?my ex is 20 slept with 9 lads before i got with her. now 13 i thinki start driveing tomoz. she wants me to run her everywhere when i start driveing i said something like " we can go for a ride " she said " yeah only if u want " i said something about the back seat she just said haha she lied 2 me tonight because james the lad she likes txt her saying what u doing? and i said who's txting u she said james from work i saw her contacts james from work number is no longer in her phone. unless the lad she fancys is james from her work but y would he work down south if he works in the same building as her?so i think it's a new james and not the 1 from work. but thinking about it. i've not seen james from work in a whilie.i was thinking of going to ikon a local club and parking outside and see who she go's home with.what do u think?i don't wanna spy but i wanna know who's she fucking beside's me.she wants me to keep doing her favours borrowing her money and stuff. i dont see y not.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Blimey,
There's a lot of Sh***ng going on down your way. I hope not only is she taking precution's but so are you. Its all so confusing Im not sure who is with who.
I was just wondering how old you all are, only you sound very young.
Regards XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): Wow, look man the best advice I can give you to all that is, if you are upset or unhappy, or feeling pain, anger or anything then just walk away from it and move on with your life.
The sooner you get away from your current situation and your ex, the better!
All the best.
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