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female
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30-35,
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writes: i really need help! i have a bf and recently i lost my virginity 2 him. my relationship with him was bad enough because he is my best friend's younger brother. however for quite a while now i have been having incredibly strong feelings for the best friend ( a girl). i neva stop thinking about her! she's really modest and thinks she is fat but she's not she has the most beautiful figure i have ever seen and though she isn't skinny she certainly isn't fat! she is so funny and caring and kind and bubbly and beautiful and (unfortunatley) straight. she has lots of problems to do with guys and shares them with me and whil i give her advice and help it tears me up inside as i like her !so! much. i now don't like the bf anymore but am worried it ould upset her if i dumped him, and i never thought i was lesbian or bi, please help me i am coming to the end of my tether! what should i do??????(p.s i am 14)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): Hey
First of if you dont like the brother the best thing to do is tell him to it straight. Leave without any grudges so your best friend wont hate you for it.
With the questions on your sexuality, at 14 every girl goes through different thoughts and feelings, just becuase you find this girl beautiful does not make you a lesbian. You just idolise and love her for who she is. Until you start having sexual feeling for this girl you can never be too sure. If the feelings do get stronger the best thing is to tell her to, if she is your best friend im sure she will understand.
Good luck
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