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*ojojay
writes: I have recently gotten into a relationship with what i feel is the love of my life but i am embarrased about the size of my penis and i want to make love, i feel its a good way to show my love to her...i dont know what to do....please help !
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): Stop the worrying! The love making is just the icing on the cake in a relationship. If she loves you then nothing will be said or done. If she does say anything then get rid of her, she isn't for you. But I bet she doesn't! Anyway there are positions you two can get into that will help her to get the maximum pleasure. Get her to straddle you, so she is sitting right on top of it, then she get the maximum size inside of her. Other than that there are lots of ways you two can love each other. But in this case, size does not matter.
Take care
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 You feel that this girl is the love of your life. If she wasn't that into you you probably wouldn't feel this way. It's only when there's true chemistry that your feelings can get as strong as yours obviously are. Let me ask you this, if she had really small boobs would it put you off sleeping with her? No, because you love her. The same is true of you. If she loves you she won't mind at all. You're obviously very close so if you're this worried talk to her about it and then there's not all the pressure of first time naked embarassment but just for the record I'm sure that you'll have no problems at all. Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): Oh man! This is the same thing I was worried about when I engaged in sexual activity with my girlfriend (well ex-girlfriend)and it was my first time to so you could imagine the agony.
But it turned out she didnt care about the size, oddly enough she commented on it being "big" which was abit odd for me.
I noticed that females responded to your question but I thought a males point of view would tell you how another male (me) felt when being in the exact same position as you are.
Good luck mate!
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Coming from a woman that has seen more than one penis, and on the receiving end of some of those penis's, I can say with out a doubt... they come in all shapes and sizes. :)
If you feel that this woman is the love of your life and you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, by all means go for it. If she has issues with your penis then obviously she is not destined to be that love of your life.
If you feel that you need to talk to her about this issue before making love, and it would make you feel better, talk to her about it. Explain to her that you are sensitive about this particular topic, and it has you concerned. I am sure she will be comforted by your honesty, and openness, and feel reassured at the same time. I am quite sure that there are things, or parts of her body that she has sensitivity issues with as well, and may feel reassured that she is not the only one that feels this way. Remember this... you would accept what ever it is you find under her clothes, I am sure she will give you the same in return.
Anyway, there is SOOOO much more to making love than penis size. It's all about how you use it, and make her feel otherwise. If she feels well loved by you, no matter how you do it, she will be satisfied, especially if she feels the same for you as you do for her.
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reader, xBadabingbadaboomx +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Personally size doesnt matter and ur gf will feel the same if she really loves u.
I really wouldnt worry about it, and to be honest there are far more important things in life than the size of ur penis! your gf should know that!
If u both feel ready to make love to eachother then go for it!
Size doesnt matter!!!
Good luck!
xx
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