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writes: OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years and four rounds of surgery, (and an onset of depression) he has finally been able to return to work. However, the relationship had developed serious problems and we parted company in April of this year.Over time, we have both realised that we do still love each other - but there are many things that are/ were not right. How much was circumstance, and how much us I dont know. Anyhow - In october he started seeing someone, and ended it in December as 'he couldn't move on'. We saw each other over christmas, and spent a wonderful week together at his flat. Then his ex girlfriend got in touch, begging to see him, and telling him she loved him. He is distraught and doesnt know which way to turn - and we had got to a state of lets work at being friends and see what leads from there.I have been in an unholy triumvirate before. I love him and want to work things out - but dont think I can cope with a situation of him seeing both of us, even if we are just being 'friends' with a view to seeing where it leads. Advice?
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reader, kath +, writes (12 January 2007):
 if he couldnt move on from you in december and he finished it with her,that was only two weeks ago! what makes you think he can now after spending a wounderfull week with you. talk to him about how you feal and ask him too, you also say 'things that are/were not right' does that mean you have worked somethings out allready? then your half way there. talk to him over a meal out and make sure you say everything. good luck x
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