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writes:I wanna make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared I'll be the worst kisser ever...like I don't know how to move my lips or my tongue or anything like that.
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reader, bbybbysos  +, writes (6 December 2010):
look just try it i bet he will be worse than you so dont worry bout it
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reader, Daisy Doo +, writes (20 March 2010):
 It's a naturall thing it comes to you by pure natuure and luck, promise! ;) xx
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reader, Deviiee +, writes (4 December 2009):
My first kiss was in year 6. I kissed him on the cheek for a dare. Then he went to kiss me. I thought it would be on the cheek but it wasn't I know it's very scary. Then, in year 8 he kissed my properly, like how u want to know about. Just let him lead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): so like two days ago i read this, and actually listened to everyone's advice and ended up making outttt with my guy yesterdayy, and really everything theyre all saying is true and helpful. so just listen to everyone, its much easier than you think. he made it easier for me by talking to me about it and making it calm. it was a lot of fun though. but yeah thanks everyone for all the help. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): My first kiss was a bit scary, but then guys started telling me that i am a great kisser. It comes naturally!!
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reader, itsmiranda96 +, writes (23 April 2009):
Hunny, i was just as scared as you aree;
but trust me everything just comes naturally,
you wont belive me until you try itt,
it is easy as can beee.
and dont worry he's not gonna think
your the worst kisser everr.
just make sure you swallow your spit in bettewn cause
i dont think he wants lots of saliva all over him (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): just go with the flow, trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): don't worry about any of that. those feelings are perfectly normal. just do what you think you are supposed to do. but let him do most of the work.
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reader, musicfrk15 +, writes (2 February 2008):
 this will sound really dumb i know and it might not be a whole lot of help but i hope that it is. everything just comes naturally. i am also new to the whole making out thing. i had no idea what to do. i was in the same position as you are. but when i started with my bf everything just came. in some ways, it was kinda like i couldnt control myself but at the same time i could. it was like i was in heaven.i hope that i was some helpfeel free to mail me anytime with questions or whatever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): ok i was told to spell the ABC's with your tongue but i think thats wrong, i think it will come naturally??? who nose
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): aw hunni 33I am going to my bf's house tomarrow and im gonna have too.He's so intimidating because he's the most gorgeous guy ever. It sucks because my first will be one of the most popular guys.Im so scared all my friends make fun of me because they are already having sex and im still scared to makeout.I though i was the only one i am so happy right now 33Thanks fer everyone elses answers too i hope they help.Like right now i say i would so do it.But idk how im gonna act around him tomarrow.And the worst part is all of his friends are gonna be there and they are all cocky jerks.So that puts the pressure on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): Well i was really nervous to make out with mine but it just came natural like we didnt plan it. it just happened and that is the way it should be. if you only want to make out with him to say oh i made out with a guy then dont thats stupid. you have to want to make out for you and not becasue of other people. are you comferatable with him? talk to him about it like me and my boy talked about it and then later on it just happened. like im in love with my boyfriend so i dont know if you are or not so i cant say its the same becasue he was the 1st for me so i dont know if its just casue i love him that i felt more cofertable with him. but dont worry about it
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reader, jmac1344  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 So long as you don't lick his teeth or you'll be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): OK, I just remembered what "making out" means from high school. I am assuming it still means pretty much the same. If you are talking about a really loooong kissing session, I would add a word of caution. There should be a stopping point. In that situation, it is usually more than the lips that become involved. The hands start roaming about and "accidentally" straying to areas they should not be straying to. Understand? And the "right hand knoweth not what the left hand doeth" or something like that. If you get into "heavy petting", the next time,... and the next time, will not be quite enough. And "cute but klutzy" will have become more confident and bold. He will take matters as far as you allow. I would advise you not to allow too much. Girls can wind up with a very long-lasting reminder of just one make-out session that they had not planned on. 'Cute but Klutzy' probably had not planned either. He probably will not even know what to do with the "thing" from the drug store even if he had planned. Scenario ending in a pretty disastrous finale'. Take care, hon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): (smile) I used to worry about where my nose would go. Ha! It went right next to hers. And they fit just right. Side by side. (wink) It does come naturally, hon. Just don't think about it and don't "pucker up" too much. It is not like kissing a baby, or your granny. Just let your lips, you know, those things on your face that help you talk, stay relaxed. Push them forward a liitle..like you are tasting an icey. Then you are getting kissed and kissing back. Now, wasn't that easy? (wink) Hopefully, your partner in the "act" is not a total ignoramous and does the same thing. He may be a little klutzy, but he can learn, too. He may have read too many silly books and watched too many "hot" movies, though. He may think he is supposed to shove his tongue into your mouth. I would gently indicate to him that that is not exactly proper at this point. And be ready for the (Oh, horrible!) possibility that you just did not "like it" very much. Don't panic. It helps a lot if you really, really like the other participant. You are not "obligated" to kiss anybody you don't feel like kissing. There is no law that a kiss at the door must end a "date". But, if you don't want to, don't go ballistic and yell, "nooo!". Just say politely that you enjoyed the date and had a good time, but you are not ready for "that". It really isn't a big deal, but it is still up to you. It is hardly something he is going to go round town or school boasting about. "So? You kissed her goodnight? Oh, wow!" Ha! Best wishes, hon. Tom
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reader, Tay +, writes (21 April 2007):
 Dont worry too much about it hun.. yeh it might appear scary the first time.. but what u have to remember is that every one goes through it.. and believe you me.. it comes naturally!
Hope it goes ok x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Don't worry about this. If this is getting to you way too much then tell your boyfriend how you feel about making out with him. He'll understand if he wants to be with you.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (20 April 2007):
 Don't think to much about it, if you dwell on it thinking you are going to be rubbish then the likellhood is you will. You boyfriend is probably as nervous as you, just go for it and im sure you will be fine, the more you do it the more experienced you will get at it, just enjoy the moment.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): You won't be the worst kisser ever... just go for it and if you suck they won't care beacuse guy teenagers don't mind.
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