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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I've worked with a guy for 4 years and we used to be best friends. He's a lovely bloke and I used to enjoy talking to him, spending our lunch time together and generally getting along great. We're both in relationships so it was a nice, calm friendship.Anyway, a few months ago he started becoming cooler towards me and we started bickering, which never used to happen. Then he started ignoring me completely. I've asked him loads of times what I've done to upset him but he's never given me a reason. I feel hurt incase he doesn't like me as a person anymore but angry that he can just throw away a friendship like that without telling me why. He was the only colleague thatI've ever liked enough to confide in and I miss the person he used to be.any advice would be appreciatedGina x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): just try backing off, ignore him back and wait for him to respond, if he doesnt, wait a while then ask him again.
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