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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): Definitely not! Given the circumstances I think they already have a difficult situation. This will just destroy lives. Just move on, cut all ties and let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): Yes, I think that you should tell the wife. She needs to have the choice to stay or go. The guy deserves everything he gets.
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reader, alita  +, writes (21 April 2007):
alita is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help! I decided to let go and ot say anything.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (21 April 2007):
 You may feel that it is enlightening his spouse, but she may already know. Do you think her life could be any worse? Don't go there, he may deserve anything that he gets, but she doesn't. Consider yourself lucky that you found out and say a little prayer for her.
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reader, Keria  +, writes (20 April 2007):
I wouldn't bother. Just let him go.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (20 April 2007):
 no you`ll only cause heartache, nothing good can come of it. Forget about him and find someone else.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 April 2007):
 Why? What possible good would it do?
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