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writes:My borfriend is studying for exams and is quite stressed. I am feeling very left out and unwanted and he keeps blowing me off for friends. I wrote him a letter explaining how I felt and he gave out to me saying I was being selfish and it was inappropriate timing. He said some very harsh things to me and I haven't stopped crying. What should I do? I love him but I don't know if I should keep going. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Well, If you were pestering him too much I would say to lay off a little and let him work the stress out for himself, As Men we don't like when our significant other insistently try to "help" us get rid of our stress. But that doesn't sound like the situation you are in. It sounds like he is using stress as an excuse to blow you off and not spend time with you. Maybe he just doesn't know how to balance his time with you, his exams, or with his needs socially with his friends, but it could also be a sign that he is losing interest in his relationship with you. You should ask him what he wants out of the relationship and if he seems angry about you questioning his motives or can't come up with a straight answer or says he doesn't know what he wants, then you will just be extending the problem if you stay with him any longer.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 April 2007):
 Well studying for exams is one thing but blowing you off to hang with friends can only mean that he just is not that into you. Dump him.
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