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writes:hi i have been having probs with my girlfriend we have been together 5 year we have split up in that time here an there we got back together again last october we have stayed very good friends even made love when we was not as a couple and she just split up with me last week as she says she dont love me like that anymore and has no feeling for me anymore but still doesnt mind being friends and me sleeping over in her bed witth her i still love her very much she putting it all down to the first years we was together when i lost my sex drive and kept pushing her away the love started to slowly go and she just cant get it back
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reader, simonelahbib06 +, writes (24 April 2007):
simonelahbib06 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow is mine going she dont no at mo and has to think about it she just keeps saying that the feelings might never come back
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reader, simonelahbib06 +, writes (21 April 2007):
simonelahbib06 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont beleave that she has lost al her love for me this is the problem i think she is saying it and dont want to let me back in like she did before incase i hurt her again she told me that she didnt love me 2 years ago when we broke up and said all the same stuff and we got back and it all went well we have been out for drinks and walks and having great fun when out and enjoy each other company
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (20 April 2007):
 It is very difficult situation that you are in at the moment. Still in love with the person who has lost their love for you is hard enough, let alone trying to JUST be friends. If you cant walk that fine line without causing yourself too much pain and anguish I would would away. Sleeping with her is only going to make things worse for you and I would only hurt you more, knowing what you cant have.
For you to still be in love with her and to "always hope" something might develop is going to cause both of you hardships ahead. This will put a wedge between you which will tear any hope of friendship apart, let alone any hope of loving feelings returning.
You need to make a choice ahead of you. Put your feelings away somewhere OR carry on loving her and risk causing a rift between the two fo you.
Ive been in a similar situation and I can relate to how feel 100%. Her love is truley lost and you have to start to understand that and accept it or put her in your past forever.
My feelings go out to you, all the best..
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