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anonymous
writes:I have started college in september and i really like two guys the problem is the are best mates. One is really good looking with a nice personality but the other is not as good looking but with a great personality! The problem is they both flirt with me and i am confused weather or not they actually like me and are not having a bet or anything!
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (20 April 2007):
hiya hun
well eventhough looks do help it is the personality that is the thing to go 4 in a guy at the end of the day it pointless having somebody that never laughs or knows to have a joke he could be the best looking guy on this world but he may be the most boring person and the only reason you went for him is coz he is gorgeous..
personality is obviously the best to look for in a guy
hope this has helped you choose and good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Well the thing is, there aren't extremes of character here. You have one friend who is good looking and has a good personality and the other who isn't nearly as good looking but has a great personality. It's a difficult choice, and I can tell you that looks play just as an important role as personality in most types of relationships, at least, that is how I perceive it.
I don't think you have to choose right away. If you're for the long term relationship, that may lead to marriage and such, then I say just go with the flow of things. However, if you're only in it for the sex, or for the social acceptance, or for fun, then I say, go for the guy with the good looks.
However, you should know that whoever you choose, the other may deny your friendship over time. It's a risk either you choose one or the other, or don't choose at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Well the thing is, there aren't extremes of character here. You have one friend who is good looking and has a good personality and the other who isn't nearly as good looking but has a great personality. It's a difficult choice, and I can tell you that looks play just as an important role as personality in most types of relationships, at least, that is how I perceive it.
I don't think you have to choose right away. If you're for the long term relationship, that may lead to marriage and such, then I say just go with the flow of things. However, if you're only in it for the sex, or for the social acceptance, or for fun, then I say, go for the guy with the good looks.
However, you should know that whoever you choose, the other may deny your friendship over time. It's a risk either you choose one or the other, or don't choose at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): decide which one of them you like best. i had this problem. i liked 2 boys who were best mates and i chose one and asked him out (he said no and now we dont talk but thats on a different thing). Decide which one you like best and just flirt with that one. See what happenes after that
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